Is this Cheating? Should I Stay?

It seems you both have faults but i mean cmon us men know that women feel unloved an unwanted they stray... i mean its 50-50 as far as i am concerned but some actions cause war it doesnt just start from nothing...id say she hasnt cheated yet but its very close to the point where she might want to find a new life..i think you should keep up with what you are doing and explain to her if its gonna work out that she shouldnt be talking top other men for companionship. i mean having male friends is ok but when its flirting an chatting an kissing thats where the line has to be drawn.